A broken home

Okay, this is my first soft skill assignment.with this post I just want to share and give some encouraging to you all who have through this moment. Yes, broken home. Who’s proud to be a broken home? No one  I think. Here we go. I have a female friend who lived as a broken home since her one year old. Can you imagine how poor she is? But she won’t be a poor girl. Yap! “Maybe I’m a broken home, but I’m not broke at  all” she said. Well, that words maybe not available to every person (who’s broken home). There’s some people who stuck with their status as a broken home. I mean stuck here, is they who become a bad person because of their parents divorce. They may think that when their parents separate, then their life’s getting hard. I’m not said that the divorce is easy to face. But you don’t have to be that bad. You don’t have to make everything more complicated. You don’t have to think that you are the one who feel it. All you have to do is realize and make everything that you have right now is going to be worth. Don’t waste your time to thinking too much about “how do I live without my father or mother?” “what can I say to my friend about my family?” “what will people say?” and so on. It’s just a suggestion. The fact is will not  like that.

Often, a broken home people have a good cover to hide their disappoint or even their status. In my view, a victim of parents divorce often have some difference from the others. It can be their behave, life style or thought. So I will explain about it. Everything that ever happen in our life, is it good or bad may have influence to our behave. And I think a parents divorce is the bad one. I’m really sure that everyone who have been this situation will feel so broken. They may feels like have no place to depend on. They may feel like loosing something in their life. Or they may confused to choose one of their parents to live with. It’s definitely doesn’t have any good side at all if you talk about a broken home.

When their parents get busy, they may feels like there’s no body care with them. And then they do something to get attention from their parents or perhaps people around them. They can do everything what they want without thinking the risk. They can’t control themselves. It’s okay if they do something worth, like reach achievement or the other good thing. But it’s not cool anymore when they become a rude or wild person, like having a drugs, free sex, night life and so on. that’s why sometimes some people think that a broken home is not a good personal.

On the other side, a broken home people have a strong ambitious. They’re thinking differently from the example above. They’re not make the divorce as a big deal, instead a motivation for their life. They have a goal. They won’t stuck as a broken home. They won’t let people see them as a bad person. They really want to prove the world that they also can do the best just like the others. And the most important thing is, they won’t make the same mistakes. I mean, divorce. Because they all know how it feels like.

From the examples, we know that the divorce can give a bad and even a good influence to their victim. But still, the divorce is not really good at all. So let you all be grateful because you’re still have a complete family. Because you still can feel comfort being inside your home. Because you’re not feeling lost something in your life.

The point is, always Thank God for what ever happened in our life. If it’s a good thing, then keep it and make it better. But if it’s a bad thing, always remember that God already has a solution before the problem. So don’t be afraid. Everything need a time. Better things are coming J
Well ya, I have a friend on a social network (tumblr.com) and I think most of his post can really inspiring Us about life. I hope so. this one of his post. and this is especially for those people who's broken home. here it is!

10 Reason To Never Give Up

1. As long as you are alive, anything is possible.
The only valid excuse you have to give up is if you are dead. As long as you are alive (and healthy and free) you have the choice to keep trying until you finally succeed.

2. Be realistic.The chance of mastering something the first time you do it is almost non-existent. Everything takes time to learn and you will make mistakes. Learn from them.

3. You are strong.You are stronger than you think. One little setback is not enough to stop you from achieving your goals. Neither are 10 or 100 or 1000 setbacks.

4. Prove yourself.You don’t want to be known as someone that is weak and gives up. Go out there and prove yourself to the world and to yourself. You CAN and WILL achieve what you set out to do. The only time you fail is when you give up.

5. Believe in your dreams.Don’t sell yourself short. In life there are going to be many people who will try to bring you down and tell you what you want to achieve is not possible.

6. Your family and friends.Let the people you love and who mean the world to you be your inspiration to persist and persevere. Maybe you need to try a different angle, study more or practice more but don’t give up!

7. There are people worse-off.Right now there are many people who are in a worse situation and environment than you are. Are you thinking about giving up running 5 miles a week? Think about the people who are unable to even walk and how much they would give to be able to run 5 miles every day.

8. You deserve to be happy.Don’t ever let anybody tell you otherwise. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have success. Keep that mindset and never give up until you reach your destination!

9. Inspire others.Be an inspiration to others by refusing to give up. Who knows what someone else can achieve because you never gave up and in turn inspired them not to give up.

10. You are so close.Often when you feel like you want to give up you are so close to making a huge breakthrough. You are just a heartbeat away from success.

now let’s shout to the world, BROKEN HOME IS NOT A BIG DEAL!